premature ejaculation cures

My relationship with my husband was a catastrophe! Why? Did he beat me up?

No.

Was he verbally violent to me?

No.

What then? you will ask me: and I will answer: he was a premature ejaculator.

 

Marriage with a premature ejaculator

I should have realized that right away, before we got married. Unfortunately I come from a very conservative family which educated me into being a virgin when I would wear my white veil.

And so it happened: when I got married, I didn’t even know how to properly suck a cock. Not that I needed to during my marriage.

Let me tell you how things happened when we were in bed: he got on top of me, went back and forth for not more than five times and then he would moan and that was it. He managed to deflower me after the tenth or the eleventh short session that we shared.

At the beginning I actually felt quite lucky for there was no pain. And when I finally felt the pain, it lasted for only one minute. Just like a one minute low-intensity earthquake when you don’t even get to feel shaky.

 

Premature ejaculation - it is just too short

It is true, I had no experience in sex. I was more than surprised flabbergasted to hear about sex intercourse lasting longer than 2 3 minutes from my friends girls . I started to ask myself some questions.

It lasted one year before I dared approaching my husband with them.  He reacted in a very defensive way.. He claimied that if I had no pleasure it was only my fault.

My fault? His cock disappeared in my pussy only to reappear a couple of minutes afterwards, wet and almost soft. His premature ejaculation hit again.

I started to masturbate on the sly until I dared asking him to do it for me. He wouldn’t say no to it, feeling somehow guilty. Still he did not want to admit that he had a serious problem.

 

Excuses for premature ejaculation

Little by little we started to communicate more. Finally he confessed that I was also his first sexual relation. He said that he had no way of controlling the moment of ejaculation.

Do you think that was a step forward?

Well, you are wrong people.

Being a very conservative man, he would say to me that we didn’t need to take this to a doctor or to a counselor. He did not want to make it public, causing embarrassment and distress to our family.

“Let’s not air our dirty linen in front of our guests”, he used to say.
In front of our guests, my word?! Our guests were also my friends who would sympathize with me and who finally introduced me to another man.

This happened in my third year of marriage. This man was nice and considerate and very open minded. Did I ruin spoil out marriage [relationship] with this [that]? Well….how can I put it….for the first time in my life I had real sexual intercourses with someone.

 

Premature ejaculation - it’s hardly real sex

I wouldn’t call that cheating. You cheat on someone you really love not on some selfish man who refuses help, blaming his wife for his quasi impotence.

And at the end I would actually completely refuse any kind of physically contact with my husband. I actually did not want to cheat on my lover and to keep myself all him.

I actually had my first orgasm with him. And loads of them afterwards.
I divorced my ex-husband three years ago. I got remarried with Ben, my lover and my illuminator. He enlightened me - both physically and mentally. I just love him.

 

Premature ejaculation - there is hope

What caught me by surprise was when Ben told me that he too had suffered from premature ejaculation. But other than my former husband he managed to cure premature ejaculation.

I honestly have to say that this confession just made me admire him more. I want a man who takes charge and can work things out and so do my girlfriends.

Are you that the man we are all looking for?

 

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