Premature Ejaculation - A Relationship Problem
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Mass-media, doctors, psychologists… everybody talks about premature ejaculation and we end up believing that this phenomenon is an objective malfunction, a real failure of one’s sexual abilities. If you go to an inexperienced doctor he might actually tell you that a quick biological reaction is a sign of vitality and that you partner should be happy for you.
When you are having sex not in order to makes babies than it should be a source of shared pleasure. If the sex is joyful and pleasurable for both partners it acts as a valve for negative emotions that can otherwise destroy the relationship.
Characterizing premature ejaculation?
Cuming, which is attached to the orgasm, is a natural reflex. But deciding upon the moment of its occurrence is not an easy thing. Being sensitive and emotional does not allow certain males to control their arousal during sex. Making clear when it actually is premature ejaculation?
It is safe to say that in at least one fourth of all relationships premature ejaculation is a problem that is present and still the problem is not discussed out in the open.
Having a feeling of shame because they can not bring their partner to orgasm makes men hesitant to talk about this issue more so because they have no idea you can .
Indeed, the mainstream is to think that premature ejaculation can be measured in terms of a minimum time, meaning a couple of minutes. Making the necessary adjustment in ones own arousal to sync with the partner is the important thing - not couting penetration time. Timing with ones partner.
Whether ejaculation takes place before penetration, 5 or 10 minutes afterwards, when the woman didn’t get the same sexual satisfaction as the man, it is not wrong or overreacted to speak about premature ejaculation. Men feel helpless because the orgasm is not up to them but to their bodies and its response to stimulation.
Premature ejaculation - destroying relationships one at a time
As said, premature ejaculation can not be considered to be a malfunctioning or a physical illness. We should not forget that it takes two to tango and for the dance to be as good as it can be you really need to do somthing to fix your premature ejaculation.
In the beginning or maybe even worse in the course of a long-term relationship, a man's premature ejaculation can become an barrier for its continuation. Men and women are equally frustrated when this problem appears. I am not the only woman who thinks like this as these other female comments below prove
“After 3 years we still have the same problem, I cannot stand it anymore. I cannot understand him, why doesn’t he make the effort to last the time I need to come as well? He gave up with the exercises he once tried even though his performance did improve.”
Here is another one: “I have been with my partner for 5 years now, at the beginning sexual relationships were great, they could occur anytime and anywhere and I felt a lot of pleasure. The beginning of the sex almost marks its end since my boyfriend has been ejaculating after just a few minutes. When we started having the problem I did not think too much of it and was confident it would go away over time but this hope dwindles more and more and now I am just desperate since I am left alone in my quest to orgasm which I would so happily share with my partner. I don’t even feel the need anymore to make love to him”
No more premature ejaculation
What makes me angry about premature ejaculators is that the suffering they cause themselves and their partners is completly unnecessary.
It is sad to see men suffer from premature ejaculation since it can be cured. Probably this is why a lot of men do not try to change this - they are just befuddled.
They need an overview of the premature ejaculation remedy.
Take your change and safe your sex life!
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